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Is Marriage GOOD or BAD for Women?

Season 1, Ep. 87

Anyone who is honest will tell you that marriage is hard... but if Andrea's IG feed is to be believed, there are a whole lot of fed up women who feel like marriage is a straight-up bad deal for women. Of course, the Honest Women HAD to join the conversation.


In this episode, Jessica and Andrea dive deep into a question that so many of us have asked ourselves: Is marriage really good for women? We get real about the challenges and expectations we face, especially when it comes to the unequal division of labor and how our careers can take a hit. We also talk about the importance of having a strong community around us and how our expectations need to shift with the different seasons of marriage.


While we acknowledge the benefits of marriage, like better health and financial security, we don’t shy away from the complexities and difficulties that often come with it. This conversation is all about being honest about the realities of marriage and recognizing that everyone’s situation is unique. It’s a must-listen if you’ve ever found yourself questioning the traditional narrative of what marriage should be.

Tune in as we explore how to navigate these challenges with open communication and realistic expectations, and why sometimes, it's okay to prioritize yourself in the process.


Takeaways:

  • Marriage can be challenging for women due to the unequal division of labor and its impact on our careers.
  • The expectations placed on marriage and the lack of community support add to the difficulties we face.
  • Despite the challenges, marriage can offer benefits like better health and financial security.
  • Realistic expectations and open communication are key to a successful marriage.
  • Different seasons of marriage require different approaches and priorities.


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