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S12 Ep. 5: Sex Dreams, Video Sex, and Wobbly Erections

Season 12, Ep. 5

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I get on well with my boss, but don’t find him attractive in any way. The other night, I had an extremely hot explicit dream about him, and it’s made me feel uncomfortable. Does it mean I secretly want to sleep with him? I often have odd sex dreams. Can you stop yourself from having them?


2) I’ve just started a new relationship and I’m nervous he’s not that into me sexually. We’ve only been together three months, and he sometimes struggles to get an erection—and often loses it when he goes down on me. We’re both young—early 20s. Shouldn’t he be up for it and hard as a rock at this age and stage? I’ve asked him about it, and he swears he finds me really attractive and says he’s always like that at the start.


3) I’m about to leave my boyfriend for a month to spend time with my family and am worried about how to keep each other sexually satisfied in the meantime. We’re quite good having phone and video sex (we both travel quite a bit), but a month is a long time. Do you have any tips or tricks to keep it all interesting for such a long period?


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